Samantha Busch Fights Back Tears at Race Kyle Busch Never Got to See
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For months, Kyle Busch had wanted to make this night happen.
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He had talked about the idea with excitement, worked behind the scenes to bring it together and envisioned a night that celebrated the kind of racing he never stopped loving, no matter how far his career took him.
On Friday night at Bowman Gray Stadium, the Kyle Busch Invitational finally became real.
Kyle wasn’t there to see it.
Instead, three months after his death at age 41, Samantha Busch stood on the grid with their 11-year-old son, Brexton, and tried to put into words what it meant to see one of her husband’s ideas come to life without him.
“This race was something Kyle really wanted to put together,” Samantha told the crowd. “The excitement in his voice and the twinkle in his eyes when he was telling me about texting Ben, trying to make it happen, was like watching a kid on Christmas. He loved this place. It’s history and the energy here, but more than anything, Kyle loved grassroots racing.”
That love was everywhere Friday.
The inaugural Kyle Busch Invitational brought 51 Legends Cars and 18 Bandoleros to one of NASCAR’s most storied short tracks. Proceeds benefited the Bundle of Joy Fund, the nonprofit Kyle and Samantha created to help families facing infertility.
But the significance of the night went beyond the cars that showed up or the money raised.
It was a race Kyle wanted.
His son was competing in it.
And his family was now carrying it forward without him.
Samantha Busch Opens Up About Brexton Racing Without Kyle
Kyle Busch became one of the most accomplished drivers of his generation, but success at NASCAR’s highest level never erased his connection to where it all started.
That was part of what Samantha wanted people to understand Friday night.
“It was where his love for this sport began and no matter how far his career took him, he never lost that,” Samantha said. “He believed in giving young racers a place to learn, compete, and dream big and fall in love with this sport the same way that he did.”
Kyle eventually got to experience grassroots racing from another perspective, too.
He became a racing dad.
Brexton’s development behind the wheel had become an increasingly visible part of Kyle’s life. There were races to attend, cars to work on, lessons to teach and, increasingly, weekends when father and son could both compete.
Friday brought that part of Kyle’s life into painfully sharp focus.
Brexton was there. He raced. He finished sixth in the feature.
His dad wasn’t standing beside him.
“Racing was such a special bond between Kyle and Brexton,” Samantha said. “Kyle loved being your dad more than anything and he loved getting to share this sport with him. Watching Brexton continue chasing his dreams without his dad beside him is absolutely heartbreaking.”
Then Samantha turned toward the community that has surrounded her family since Kyle’s death.
“But I am so grateful for all the people that surround us that love Kyle,” she said.
It was a simple line, but it captured much of what Friday night had become. Brexton was continuing down a road he had started with his father, only now there was an entire racing community helping make sure he didn’t have to walk it alone.
The Kyle Busch Invitational Carried a Legacy Bigger Than Racing
There was another reason the Invitational mattered so much to Samantha.
The event supported the Bundle of Joy Fund, an organization born from one of the most difficult chapters of Kyle and Samantha’s marriage.
“We spent almost a decade trying to complete our family,” Samantha said. “We battled infertility, miscarriages, and IVF and it was extremely difficult, but we knew how fortunate we were to be able to keep trying. We knew we wanted to give that same hope to other couples desperately praying for a family of their own.”
Their experience eventually became a mission to help other families. And Samantha believes becoming a father changed Kyle along the way.
“Fatherhood changed Kyle in the most beautiful ways and it was clear to see how much this mission meant to him,” she said. “Knowing that something we built together will continue helping families grow by bringing babies into this world for years to come is the most beautiful piece of Kyle’s legacy that we get to carry forward.”
That word, legacy, can easily become shorthand when someone with Kyle’s résumé dies.
His can be measured in championships, victories and statistics. It lives in trophies, record books and race footage.
Samantha’s speech offered a different definition.
It was Brexton climbing into a race car.
It was families who may one day have children because of the fund Kyle and Samantha built.
And it was the people at Bowman Gray who showed up for an event Kyle once talked about with the excitement of “a kid on Christmas.”
Samantha thanked those fans for continuing to cheer for Brexton and Lennix before emotion briefly overwhelmed her.
“Every time you tell a Kyle story, carry a piece of who he was into your own life, you help keep his legacy alive,” she said.
She then asked them to carry something more.
“Work hard, never stop trying to be your best, and stay true to who you are,” Samantha said. “Those are the things that Kyle lived every day, and I hope that those are the pieces of him that continue to live on in all of us.”
Samantha Busch Ends With Three Words for Kyle
Eventually, there was nothing left to do but race.
That was why Kyle wanted everyone at Bowman Gray in the first place.
“Our lives will never be the same without him,” Samantha said. “But I know Kyle’s love for this sport, his impact on it, and the legacy he left behind, and will continue to do so through all of us. So tonight, let’s do exactly what Kyle had wanted.”
Then Samantha distilled an emotional five-minute speech, and perhaps the entire purpose of the night, into three words.
“We race on.”
And they did.
The engines fired. Brexton climbed behind the wheel. The Kyle Busch Invitational went from an idea Kyle never got to see completed to another piece of the legacy his family is determined to keep moving forward.